Pussy Whisperer

My husband is amazing, but I’m pretty sure that is relevant from my previous postings. Yesterday, we went to my in laws wedding, and it was fun, romantic, and we had an amazing time. We danced, laughed, kissed, met family new and old, and even my son found a little girlfriend. The best thing we heard from last night was “Every time I see you guys, I think there is hope.” That was in reference to relationships/marriages that don’t last.

This morning I awoke to a new award. I have gotten a few in the past two weeks, and while I appreciate them, please understand if I cannot re-post immediately, or possibly ever. My time at home is already taken by a rambunctious three-year old. Now, while I adore the person who gave me this award because he is a fantastic writer (no, seriously, I envy his writing. I want to write like him when I grow up), he included the word ‘cuckold’ in his nomination to me. I don’t like that word. While everyone has a different definition for it, here are my reasons for abhorring that word:

  1. This Tumblr page (OH. HELL. NO!);
  2. Cuckold would imply that I am allowed to fuck whomever I please, and my husband is to stay home and wait for me like a good hubby should. NO. Henri is allowed and encouraged to have sex with other women; however, he is very selective and has not found a woman who reaches up to his standards;
  3. Henri is not turned on by the fact that I have sex with Sir Dre (seeing he is the only other man I am having sex with). He just respects the fact that I have other needs that he does not know how to meet, yet. (Which is why we wanted to have Sir Dre over for dinner; it’s a learning experience for all of us)
Henriandkitten
Fuck this man turns me on!

 

Do you see this man here? He is the sexist man on the planet to me. What I have with Sir Dre is completely overshadowed by my love for Henri, and Sir loves that about me. He is the only man I know who can play with a kitten and make my pussy purr. I am severely over protective when it comes to him, and I never want anyone to get the idea that he is a wimp, chump, pathetic, or anything that might imply that he is less than what he is in my eyes. I don’t mean to sound bitchy, and I apologize if I do. But, if there is one thing most haven’t noticed yet is that I am not one to withhold my views or opinions. Especially when they involve the core of my existence.

And yes, this is for Sinful Sunday. Because I am going to get sinful with this man right here. Well, once he is done with that kitten first; then he can play with mine…

sinfulsunday

-Scarlett

38 thoughts on “Pussy Whisperer

    li class="comment even thread-even depth-1 parent" id="comment-1677">

    Dear Scarlett,
    I believe we share the same outlook towards our “hubbies”. I presently don’t have any “other man” in my life, or as my husband refers to “an assistant” I Absolutely Adore my Husband, and have such Respect for him. When I saw the
    Tumblr link, it stirred many thoughts and emotions. Is This Really The Love Of a Wife to her Husband? Does this man really feel Good about himself? I understand he is obviously in a state of submission, although I found the post to be on the cruel side.
    Thank you for sharing. I try to experience something new everyday, and I did “Humiliation”. Not my cup of tea.
    Have A Great Day

      li class="comment odd alt depth-2" id="comment-1678">

      Those were my thoughts exactly on the contents of the site. Humiliation, for me or my hubby, is not ideal. To each is own, but if that is what some people consider cuckolding, I do not want to be associated with it. xxx

    li class="comment even thread-odd thread-alt depth-1 parent" id="comment-1679">

    I don’t understand it, but I respect it. And damn, he is *very* sexy.

      li class="comment odd alt depth-2" id="comment-1685">

      Thanks hun! xxx

    li class="comment even thread-even depth-1 parent" id="comment-1680">

    From what I have read on your site, never once has the word cuckold come to mind. I think it’s quite wonderful that your husband allows you to explore, but that does not make him a wimp at all!

    And damn, the pic is sexy!

    Rebel xox

      li class="comment odd alt depth-2" id="comment-1684">

      Thanks Rebel! And you made my hubby smile :-) xxx

    li class="comment even thread-odd thread-alt depth-1 parent" id="comment-1681">

    If that picture is your hubby I volunteer to fuck him! Lmao, I’m just playing but I would have a hard time viewing a husband as a “cuckhold” as well.

      li class="comment odd alt depth-2" id="comment-1686">

      Thank you love! You made my hubby blush 😉 xxx

    li class="comment even thread-even depth-1 parent" id="comment-1682">
    TemptingSweets99

    Puffy heart this — the image and your words.

      li class="comment odd alt depth-2" id="comment-1683">

      Thank you Sweets! xxx

    li class="comment even thread-odd thread-alt depth-1 parent" id="comment-1687">

    I don’t understand the open relationship type thingy at all. Bad Kitty would like me too and I’m trying (and failing I’m afraid). But I respect what you have and you totally have an awesome looking husband and kitten! Go you!

      li class="comment odd alt depth-2 parent" id="comment-1688">

      Thank Bunny! It’s not for everyone, but so far, Henri and I have made it work, and we are sincerely happy, which is all that counts. xxx

        li class="comment even depth-3" id="comment-1689">

        I definitely agree. Happiness for all involved is the key to anything :)

    li class="comment odd alt thread-even depth-1 parent" id="comment-1690">

    I have to say I completely agree I don’t see anything cuckolding about your relationship with Henri. To me that kink is about a level of humiliation of the husband that he gets off on. That is clearly not the case with you two where I see a loving couple who are exploring other people for their mutual benefit

    Oh and this image is quite frankly as sexy as hell! Don’t ask me what it is, clearly Henri is a handsome man but the tiny kitten just seems to emphasis his beautiful maleness.

    Mollyxxx

      li class="comment even depth-2" id="comment-1691">

      Henri says thank you! And yes, I agree with you on how the kitten emphasizes his manliness. It’s sexy to see him, strong and sexy, be so delicate with out kitten. Suffice to say that we made love soon after…xxx

    li class="comment odd alt thread-odd thread-alt depth-1 parent" id="comment-1692">

    Everyone has their own way of making life work for them – those men/women who choose to have a strong humiliation theme defining their play – well it’s not my kink!

    Surely a guy who lets you go and explore is a brave and open-minded man: anything but a wimp?

      li class="comment even depth-2" id="comment-1693">

      I’d like to think so! Although, the person who wrote ‘cuckold’ does think that Henri is weak or wimpy; he has a different definition of the word. However, I am not comfortable with the term, and so I chose to address why. I respect the people who so choose to do their own thing; just don’t put me in the same pool just for the sake of generalization. xxx

    li class="comment odd alt thread-even depth-1 parent" id="comment-1694">

    I haven’t seen the whole conversation unfold, but all I know is that whatever works for you and Henri, is right for you guys and f**k what anyone else thinks or says. And any guy that looks that sexy with a kitten, phwoar.. 😉

      li class="comment even depth-2" id="comment-1695">

      Rightly said! xxx

    li class="comment odd alt thread-odd thread-alt depth-1 parent" id="comment-1696">

    Such beautiful words about your hubby and your relationship. I visited the link, and can completely understand why you don’t like cuckold.

      li class="comment even depth-2" id="comment-1697">

      Thank you. That page makes me cringe, but hey, it’s not my life. xxx

    li class="comment odd alt thread-even depth-1" id="comment-1698">

    Always something sexy about a man who’s good with animals.

    li class="comment even thread-odd thread-alt depth-1 parent" id="comment-1699">

    Congrats on your award! That tumblr page you found. . . yikes! Not my idea of cuckolding either. Though a fellow blogger once told us that our relationship isn’t your typical “cuck” because there is a dom/sub element to it between Lo and me. So, I guess, just like with everything else having to do with sex and sexuality, there are no easy definitions or simple answers. It’s rather so many. . . no, I won’t say “Shades of Gray.” Ha!

      li class="comment odd alt depth-2" id="comment-1700">

      Ha! Please don’t say that! 😉 xxx

    li class="comment even thread-even depth-1 parent" id="comment-1701">

    The use of the word “cuckold” when applied to this lifestyle has certainly been an explosive term for several years now that I have been aware of. I think the dictionary term fits — paraphrasing, a cuckold is a husband whose wife has slept with another man. What the term has been co-opted into is this BDSM humiliation kink where the husband is somehow the sissy-wimp, has to have his little dicklett restrained and is often required to clean the house and service the wife’s well hung lover. That Tumblr link is exactly what makes a lot of folks who participate in a relationship like yours and Henri’s cringe. And I agree.

    If we must apply labels (and why do we need to), I’d say you are a Hotwife. Most of the folks in this lifestyle agree that the term Hotwife best describes a happy couple who recognize the need for the wife to have fun outside her marriage, with the husband’s full support and appreciation. Often, the husband wants details, but this is not done in a humiliating way. And nobody is forced to wear a plastic cock harness.

      li class="comment odd alt depth-2" id="comment-1702">

      Perhaps the hotwife label fits, although I don’t feel like a “hot wife,” but it’s better that cuckold, that’s for sure. :-) xxx

    li class="comment even thread-odd thread-alt depth-1" id="comment-1703">

    Oh my goodness, the cuteness in this image! So adorable!!
    xxPenny

    li class="comment odd alt thread-even depth-1" id="comment-1704">
    lovelustlondon

    Doesn’t seem in any way strange to me. And, from this picture, he certainly looks like a manly man. Oh, and very, very cute kitten!

    O x

    li class="comment even thread-odd thread-alt depth-1 parent" id="comment-1705">

    That pic is adorable :)

    ~Kazi xxx

      li class="comment odd alt depth-2" id="comment-1706">

      Thank you! xxx

    li class="comment even thread-even depth-1 parent" id="comment-1707">

    Lovely shot, and beautiful relationships to highlight as well, each individual and amazing special in its own right

      li class="comment odd alt depth-2" id="comment-1708">

      Thank you sweetie! Yes you are right, each one special in it’s own right. xxx

    li class="comment even thread-odd thread-alt depth-1 parent" id="comment-1709">

    Can I just say I am drooling over your hubby? He’s just delicious looking. *wink*
    I am so glad I am catching up on your posts and yes for push whisperer.
    Also congrats on your award.
    xoxox

      li class="comment odd alt depth-2" id="comment-1710">

      Thanks hun! xxx

    li class="comment even thread-even depth-1 parent" id="comment-1711">
    jemima101

    I am so sorry you got the cuckhold thing too, tbh it makes me quite angry. I have nothing against cuckholding, and know some lovely ppl for whom it works very well, but a man whose wife has sex with other men is not a cuckhold, A cuck is s very specific thing. Nor would i say you are a hot wife, since that usually means the husband gets sexual satisfaction from his wife having sex with other men.

    I think like me you are simply someone married to a wonderful man who knows love is more than sex.

      li class="comment odd alt depth-2 parent" id="comment-1712">

      Yes we are. My issue with this whole thing in general is people trying to put a name on something that just is. I think people also have doubt that this is successful and we are happy, so they attach a kink or phrase so that it makes sense. Whatever it is, I’m fucking happy! xxx

        li class="comment even depth-3" id="comment-1713">
        jemima101

        :-) exactly!

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