This is my place

I come here to vent. To tell my side of the story; my truth. And the truth is, if you want to hear Henri’s side, you’re not going to. Before it has been typed and published here, he has heard it first. The things I need to tell him, I do. “I want more romance… […]

Try a little tenderness 

Most days, this is my inner-response when Henri pushes for sex. He insists, I resist. I give in every so often, just to release some steam from his pot. I have remained adamant that I will not enjoy myself unless he gives me something to enjoy. There was a time that the mere view of […]

The Weight of a Marriage

While I’d like to say that I took such a hiatus from blogging because I’ve been having this phenomenal sex life and I’ve been much too busy to write about it, that’s not the case (and it rarely, if ever, is). All my absences from the blogosphere has been because of some type of crisis, […]

Sex in the Hospital or The time we were Ghosts

Back in February I wrote a piece about the time Henri and I had sex in a hospital. It was posted to wonderfully new site, Simply Sxy, which I have been meaning to share. Here it is, please enjoy! And if you needed tissues to finish reading this, then I am one happy lady! It was […]

An Untitled Message

The four-year anniversary of creating this blog passed about a week ago. I didn’t know what it was that I had begun, or even what I would write about. All I knew is that I needed to shed some guilt and hopefully find a way to express myself. Since my transgression was due to sexual repression, […]

Monotony makes a return

I’m not sure if this is a natural recurrence in the marital world. Or perhaps I naively thought that once we had gone through it we wouldn’t go through it again, at least not as bad as before. I was obviously wrong, because we are currently going through a case of monotony in our marital […]

Train of Thought: Weekend Edition

I’m listening to a song Henri and I fucked to earlier. Such a good quickie. Damn. I missed those. Last night I gave Henri his first blow job in our brand new car, parked near an overhead highway. Surprisingly uncomfortable for me, but such a turn on to see him enjoy it. We drove around, […]

Play with your food

We need food for everyday survival. But how about using it for fun every once in a while? Food and sex for me go hand in hand, because I need both of them to survive. So why not combine them every now and then? I’ve used donuts, chocolate, ice cream–I’ve even had Henri’s dick in my cereal! […]

Counting my blessings

A Christmas free of worry while I enjoy my son’s smiles.  Finding my ultimate, favorite holiday movie on Demand from my cable television company. My niece, who has begged to stay at my home for weeks, is here. And she brought dolls. Squeeeeeel!!! For making the Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2013 list. Holyfuckingshitballsinapeartree!  For making Beck’s Top 25 […]